Homewreckers tend to work in many ways and they attempt to get more and more intricate with their motives as time goes on. Since all of us are sophisticated and are able to tell between true and false, they're easy to spot and shut down. If they try to push further, then playing mind games with them is allowed if they try to make their way into any of your private lives/relationship privacy. Homewreckers are losers, they're a type of narcissist, they never win and will always get eventually caught in their tracks. "Remember, best block no be there" -Mr Miyagi, The Karate Kid